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thegreenwolf posted this
While there are exceptions, as a general rule men do not experience this. That is the difference. Most men never understand this systematic element of rape culture, and most of those who do only did after they themselves were raped. For women, rape is a very real thing whether we have been through it or not because it is forced upon us as a concept for most of our lives. For men, rape is usually something they can ignore unless they are of the minority who has experienced or perpetuated it.
So that is why some people get frustrated when “WHAT ABOUT THE MEN??!!” gets brought up in every single discussion on rape, because then the prevailing culture surrounding rape that women uniquely experience on that systemic level gets ignored. While it is very important to talk about rape culture as it affects rape victims of all sexes and genders, this needs to not dilute or derail discussion about the more subtle and pervasive elements of rape culture that are specific to women as potential, as well as actual, victims.